Is it a long time away from the newlyweds? I suddenly appeared in front of my wife, she was very surprised, took my hand and said she wanted to go home to cook for me, I said it was not quiet to eat at home, let’s go to the hotel to eat, she nodded knowingly and shyly Head, pulled me along the way and walked quickly towards the hotel.
It was my wife’s birthday. We have been married for five years. We are separated due to work reasons. I work in a different place, and she takes care of the children in her hometown. She only sees each other once in half a year.
I didn’t tell her before I went home, but lied that there was a courier at the express station on the street and told her to go to the street to pick it up. When she got to the express station, she found that I was already waiting at the door. She felt It was a special surprise, and he flew into my arms and said, “Why didn’t you tell her before you came back?”
I said that it was your birthday tomorrow, and I just wanted to give you a surprise. She said that it was all an old couple, so you don’t need to care about these ceremonies. But she could see that she was still very happy.
It was already afternoon and she asked me if I had lunch? I said that I didn’t want to eat while I was in the car, and she said very considerately: Hurry home, I’ll cook something delicious for you, and see how thin you are outside!
And I looked into her eyes and told her affectionately that it’s not quiet to eat at home, let’s go to the hotel to eat! She scolded me with a smile.
My wife has suffered a lot with me in recent years, but she said it was worth it!
When we were about to get married in 2014, we were opposed by her parents, because my job was not stable at the time, and my hometown was in the countryside. I didn’t have a house or a car, so the conditions were really not good.
When I came to propose a marriage, I bought high-end alcohol, tobacco and pork according to local customs and a red envelope of 12,000 yuan.
However, when she finished lunch at her house that day, her father lost his temper, disagreed with our marriage, and even threw my gifts down the slope outside the door, then scolded my wife and said: ” If you dare to marry him, you will never come back in your life, and we will cut off the contact between father and daughter.”
I discussed with his parents and asked them how much dowry they would need, but his father said that it was not a matter of dowry or not. Even if you get 200,000 or 500,000 now, how will you live in the future? I don’t allow my daughter to be with you.
No matter how I said good things to his parents, it was of no use. They looked at me and became furious. My wife cried and said to me: You go home first, and we will talk about it after a while.
I had no choice but to go back to my home in a daze. I lived in an uneasy mood every day. I didn’t know how to deal with this matter: let’s break up, but I’m reluctant.
More than half a year has passed, but his father just doesn’t agree with his daughter being with me.
On Valentine’s Day on the seventh day of the first month of 2016, my wife suddenly said to me: I have decided, I will go out and marry you!
To be honest, I wasn’t overjoyed to hear that because I knew how much she would have to sacrifice if she decided to marry me, and that’s not what I want to see.
The love in my mind is to hope to get the blessings of the relatives of the two families, and then enter the palace of marriage. This kind of marriage is a happy marriage.
The wife said that her parents’ side is up to her, but I want to practice a technique: drinking! Drink white wine!
Drinking baijiu is life-threatening for me. Every time I drink it, I want to cry to death. The taste is really spicy, but I can drink a little bit of beer.
The wife said that her father likes to drink, and only if he finds a common hobby will there be a topic, and her father always thinks that men who can drink are straightforward and can do great things!
At a loss, it took me half a year to learn to drink!
Finally, at the wine table, I was moved and understood, and finally persuaded her father to agree with us to be together.
Her father said: From the bottom of my heart, I really don’t want to marry my daughter to you, but the girl has always had a soft spot for you. We parents can’t do anything about it. The road is paved by the parents, but it is up to you to walk. Just leave it to your fate!
In this way, on the National Day in 2015, I finally entered the palace of marriage with my beloved!
I have been working in sales since graduation and the salary has not been ideal.
Everyone knows that the prices of various products are very transparent now, and you can check the situation on the Internet, so it is difficult to carry out business, and because of my relatively introverted personality, the salary income has not been high.
As the saying goes, there are always ups and downs in life. Maybe it’s because I just got married and I’m very happy, or my wife is very prosperous. In 2016, I followed a client for three years and began to place big orders for me. Yes, my income has skyrocketed.
This client has been working with me all the time, and almost all of them have become friends, but his business is not very big, with sales of less than 1 million throughout the year.
In 2016, he told me good news, he said that he received an order from a foreign customer, and the order volume was very large.
I thought he was just talking at the time. After all, in order to get the lowest price, many customers would fool the salesman and say, “This small order is proofing, give me the lowest price, and there will be a large order later.”
Unexpectedly, what he said was true. This year, based on this one customer, I was promoted to sales manager, and my income increased several times compared to before.
In 2017, I renovated my father-in-law’s house and bought all the furniture that should be replaced. In fact, in our rural areas, these don’t cost a lot of money, but in the past few years, the economic sanitary ware was indeed more than enough, and now I do this. It is also to make the old man happy.
In 2018, I bought a house and a scooter in my home county. Although these are incomparable to the life in the first-tier cities, I think that if I buy a house in my hometown, my parents may come to live there when they are older. , shopping, pointing these are not bad.
Sometimes I think about it, isn’t the purpose of men earning money just to let their parents, children and women live a good life?
The current conditions are still a certain distance from my dream, but everything is developing in a good direction.
I am especially grateful to my wife for her persistence in these years, especially when the conditions were so poor back then, she married me without hesitation, and suffered with me for so many years.
When the child was a few months old, he often did not rest at night and kept playing. Sometimes he played until three or four in the middle of the night, and his wife was too sleepy, but he had to persevere.
Sometimes the child is disobedient and has to walk back and forth with his arms in his arms. As long as he sits down, he keeps crying. When he keeps walking, he is very quiet, but the child is too young to beat and scold him, so there is no way. I can only rely on him… the pain of having a child is only understood by the woman who came here.
Therefore, many men should not always think that it is easy for a woman to bring a child, and that if a woman does not go to work, she just eats rice. In fact, for many women, she is more willing to go to work than to take care of children. when.
Therefore, whether it is a wife or a husband, as long as everyone is willing to take a responsibility for the family, and it is all for the family’s struggle and sacrifice, they should understand and respect each other, be considerate of each other, and work together to build a better family.