Author: Kafka is busy source: outsider’s horizon (id:hooyar_380097485)

Since the day before yesterday, someone has been pushing me a video. Yes, it’s hot on the whole network

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From the perspective of creation alone, it’s really good to make the short film like this. With the ability to use the lens, strong copywriting, and no special effects, it can also resonate with the audience of the whole network.

But who can it really cure?

For a period of time, I was at the bottom of my life, and my business was fruitless. I just ran around blindly, so I often went to the cancer hospital for a walk. Compared with the patients there, a relatively healthy body has won in all aspects.

This spiritual victory method is very useful. It works every time you are extremely depressed.

So I think, you see, my second uncle is nothing more than this mentality. An old man who has been devastated by fate can still live optimistically. What can you be anxious about?

But the fact is that after you read it, you will still fall into uncontrollable anxiety, just like after I strolled out of the cancer hospital, I still have to toss around for projects that can’t see the direction, and continue to fall into depression.

Today, I chatted with two old friends. These two sisters are the kind of people who are close to wealth and freedom. In their early years, they worked as senior managers in real estate companies. They got a lot of houses and money, and now they still have careers.

Such people are full of all kinds of negative emotions when they speak, sometimes lamenting the depression of the real estate industry, sometimes worrying about the impact of the epidemic on the economy, and sometimes complaining about the anti epidemic policy.

They are all good people in life, who can let their friends take advantage of them casually (it is this that attracts me who likes to take advantage). Complaining is just a manifestation of anxiety, which is called spiritual internal friction in the recent popular words.

I can feel their fear, a worry about the possible so-called class decline.

This reminds me of the classic answer I saw in force a long time ago.

So you see, the real penetrating understanding of the root cause of anxiety is that a group of people who are originally proletarians are brainwashed and self-defined as the so-called middle class, but they also vaguely feel wrong, a sense of powerlessness to control the future, so they fall into constant self denial.

Of course, at best, this negation is the driving force to urge everyone to move forward. At worst, this is the source of spiritual internal friction for countless so-called people who touch the threshold of the middle class or try to enter the middle class.

This answer has some limitations. Even the successful big capitalists and business owners, who have the means of production and capital, will be deprived of nothing if they fail to meet the requirements of capital.

Over the years, have we seen few bosses from success to bankruptcy?

Recently, the lawsuit of Suning triggered a heated debate. Zhang Jia and his son were chased for debt in HK. The creditors were unwilling to spare no effort and planned to dig three feet of land. Even if they hid in Europe and the United States, they would have to recover it to the end. Therefore, the son of Zhang Jia, once touted by the whole network, is really the winner of life who was born and hung up?

I’m afraid his mental internal friction at this time is much stronger than ours.

I also remembered a story of Mr. Ren Zhengfei. He said that he was very anxious for some time. He thought of paying hundreds of millions of wages every month. He had nightmares all night, cried when he woke up, and even thought of suicide.

But one day he went to eat in Inner Mongolia and saw herdsmen girls singing and dancing so happily, so optimistic, so love life, and even such poor farmers can live strong, which made Mr. Ren burst into tears and completely put down his demons.

So you see, with Ren Zhengfei’s achievements in those years, even if Huawei really went bankrupt, could he fall into real poverty and live unsustainably?

Anxiety is always thinking about success, but in the process, it has encountered various tests, so it looks as if it is getting farther and farther away from the goal. It is not only oneself but also others who have borne the ardent hopes of becoming an enterprise. How can a person’s heart undertake so many things?

This kind of mental anxiety internal friction has nothing to do with matter.

After this time, Huawei’s strategy has become “to serve all mankind! To contribute to the development of the information industry of all mankind”

So you see, turning the result oriented theory into the pursuit of excellence in the process.

As long as we keep working hard, even if Huawei fails and is knocked down by its rivals in the end, it will at least cultivate a group of capable and ideal scientific and technological talents. Isn’t this a contribution?

If you take everything in the process as your goal, no matter what the result, Mr. Ren will be worthy of this life, and there is so much pressure in his heart.

If you want results, you will be doomed to no results.

Some people say that I want to earn a small goal first, but you really achieved the small goal. Can you let yourself go? No, you will also have some new goals, causing countless troubles to yourself, or you may get small goals, become a miser, and worry about the potential to endanger your property every day.

Before writing this topic, I was forced to recommend an answer to “I am XX years old and have achieved nothing. What should I do?”, From youth to middle age, it is estimated that the elderly will lie flat completely, and they are too lazy to ask.

I write a little bit of history half heartedly. It’s easy for my soul to diverge every time I write it. Look at how many fresh lives have existed in China since history, let alone the whole world. How many can be successful?

From a historical point of view, it’s a terrible thing to leave a name in the history book, but these people who leave a name are only a few Chengwang, most of them are defeated invaders, and even become the stepping stone to defeat invaders.

Many people in the world, even if they are lucky enough to be emperors, dare you say how many of them are successful and widely praised by later generations?

People live in the world, and doing nothing is the real normal. When you can change a perspective and look down on all creatures like God, you will find that most people accomplish nothing and are doomed to accomplish nothing, because their achievements are so insignificant in the long river of the whole history.

If you look through life, you will find that even if you have achieved something like the first emperor of Qin Dynasty, the eternal emperor has everything in the world. Once the dead body falls to the ground, people can still be loaded with stinky abalone, causing physical corruption, the country is destroyed by bandits, and future generations are slaughtered.

Thousands of years later, anonymous people like you and me can go to the tomb of Qin Shihuang at any time if they want, and he can’t object.

So the theory of result is that we will all die in the end, but as long as we live, life is a kind of meaning. It is neither meaningful nor necessary to bind our achievements in life to the possession of materials, but only increases anxiety.

But now in this world, in the era of consumerism, if we don’t sell material anxiety, how can capital grow like a snowball?

You keep putting forward new wishes in the material, which can never be satisfied, and expect to use the material to get high praise from others, so that your so-called efforts don’t seem to be in vain. This is the root of spiritual internal friction.

Defining a nonexistent class for yourself, thinking about jumping for a while, being afraid of falling for a while, and putting it there every day to seek a sense of security, is like looking for the moon in water in vain.

So you see, people always like to compare. Looking at those who are worse than themselves, their hearts will be calmed temporarily, but you can’t live in a vacuum. As soon as they receive external information, they know that there are so many people better than themselves in the world, so they fall into self comparison and denial.

When I come out of the cancer hospital, I often meet young girls and boys who are full of vitality. Leaving the village of my second uncle and the old people, the big city outside is full of bright and successful people.

So there will be another wave of spiritual internal friction.

If you want to avoid falling into a cycle of self denial, you just need to think less about the results, take the process seriously, and do everything you can as well as possible, which is enough.

Everyone’s ability is limited, and the situation is different. You don’t need to compare with anyone. Just being worthy of your short life is good enough.