There is a saying that goes well: Rare is precious, and the more a person lacks, the more he cares about it.
For women who have been single for a long time and have no contact with men, they will become more and more unfamiliar with men, and they will become less and less aware of men. Over time, they will become more and more curious about the group of men.
For those women who have been single for a long time, is it cute, or is it pitiful and unloved?
In fact, the reason why most women have been single for a long time is that their circle is too small, they can’t get in touch with more men, and they have no choice. In addition, these women are very independent, and they gradually get used to the single life. .
After a long time, women will feel that it is good to be single, and men are like external things, which are optional.
However, there are still some common characteristics of women who have been single for a long time. See if you find it?
1. Panic every holiday
This is probably the common feature of all single people. People who have a partner especially like holidays, because they can finally meet and date with their loved ones and go out to play; those who have no partner are especially afraid of the holidays, because no one has an appointment during the holidays. , just stay home to pass the time.
For women who have been single for a long time, although they are used to spending the holidays alone, they still feel a little uncomfortable. When they see the friends around them are both in and out, it will be even more uncomfortable.
Women have also thought about the question of “Why do others have objects, but I am left behind”, but after thinking for a long time, there is still no result. They can only comfort themselves that it is good to be single, while envy others who love and care for others.
In order to reduce the sense of panic, women who have been single for a long time will choose to stay out of the house during the holidays, and they may not be able to see those friends who show affection. Maybe they can feel better.
Second, will become more and more unconfident
When a woman who has been single for a long time sees her best friend in love, she always asks her best friend: “Am I really bad? Why do you all have a partner, and only I am single?” This lack of confidence is a long-term lack of contact Men, it is caused by not falling in love.
With this kind of inferiority complex, women who have been single for a long time will compare themselves with their girlfriends, repeatedly think about how they are inferior to their girlfriends, and then work silently in their hearts to make themselves better.
But every time I see the female friends around me have new relationships one after another, women still feel a little inferior in their hearts, and always feel that they are inferior to others, so no man likes them.
Perhaps at the beginning of being single, women would also go to parties between friends, and when they were single for a long time, women would seldom go to parties.
Because at parties, women are always asked by friends about their personal feelings. When they are asked more times, women naturally feel a little inferior and don’t want to be “prompted to get married” again, so when friends invite her to the party again, she will will find various reasons to refuse.
3. Will ask male friends the mate selection criteria
When fate doesn’t come, no matter how hard a woman tries to be good, she still won’t be liked by a man.
For those women who have not been in contact with men for a long time, after being single for a long time, they don’t know what type of women men like, so when they meet their male friends, they will come up with “break the casserole and ask to the end” I have the energy to ask them: “What kind of women do your men like now?” Or “Do I meet your men’s mate selection criteria?”
This seemingly casual chat is actually a woman deliberately consulting her male friends, trying to judge whether she conforms to a man’s aesthetics and mate selection through their answers.
If it matches, the woman will secretly rejoice, because she knows that her destiny will come soon; if it does not match, the woman will lose heart, and then work hard to meet the man’s mate selection standard.
Emotional conclusion:
Single and in love, each has its own advantages. For women who enjoy being in love, they will feel that being in love is the most beautiful thing in the world, and being loved is very happy; for women who enjoy being single, they will feel that being single is actually good, and working hard to manage themselves is better than anything else. Significant.
For women who have been single for a long time and have no contact with men, after being single for a long time, they have gradually become accustomed to living alone.
Over time, their inner need for love will become lower and lower. In the face of the man he likes, there is no longer much fluctuation in his heart, at most he is only moved, that’s all.
But when people around you are in love, women will also feel a little lost and lonely, the desire for love in their hearts will be rekindled, they will become less and less fond of holidays, they will become less and less confident, and they will continue to Ask your male friends about the mate selection criteria.
If you meet such a woman, it means that she has not been in contact with a man for a long time, your opportunity is here, you must seize it!