What on earth are you doing when you are 30 years old and have nothing to do?
My 88 years, this year just 30.
In 2009, my family bought me a 120 square meter house in the urban area. After graduating from college in 2011, I just came out for a salary of one or two thousand. In 2012, my family bought me a car, met my girlfriend and began to contact Taobao, with a salary of 5000.
It wasn’t until 14 years that we started our business and earned more than 100000 yuan. In 15 years, kaitmall also earned more than 100000 yuan and married his girlfriend.
Later, I lent 200000 yuan to my friend. In 2016, I began to lose money. I started to lose money by partnering with suppliers. Up to now, I owe 300000 yuan to suppliers. I ignored my friend’s 200000 yuan. The relationship between my wife and me is getting weaker and weaker, and we are on the verge of divorce.
Now there are three employees in the store. The revenue and expenditure are balanced. The suppliers are forced to pay debts every day. If they don’t come out, they will stop supplying goods.
I am a optimist myself. I always imagine a beautiful future, but the reality always gives me a hard slap. I don’t dare to tell my parents that they work. It’s not easy to make money to buy me a car and a house. My grandparents are also old, which makes me very worried.
Suppliers are aggressive. My friends don’t pay me back. My wife told me to lay off all employees, leave the office and let me do it at home alone. I didn’t promise. I was looking for other suppliers to cooperate. But my wife didn’t believe me at all. She always laughed at me and didn’t think much of me.
She told me two days ago that what I can’t get from me will be found in others (we don’t have children). This sentence has always made me very concerned. I have been losing sleep every day recently.
As my wife said, I have a big problem with my personality. I am too easy to trust others. I am a muddle headed account. I am indecisive. I have a serious obsession with moral purity. I am too easy to lose my mind. I don’t care about money with others. I am a fool. I am too optimistic about things. I always don’t consider the worst situation. It is suitable for living in ancient times.
I don’t know what to do. No one will understand me and help me. I have to work hard and take one step at a time. I don’t dare to sell cars or houses. I’m afraid my family will worry.
I’m nearly 30 years old. It’s enough to mix up like this. You must not follow the path of a loser like me.
I am 89 years old, male, and will soon be 30 years old.
At present, I work in the company for about 50000 yuan a year. My girlfriend is from the court. She is a 95 year old child with a monthly salary of less than 2000 yuan. The employment system.
Now I have a house but no loan. I’m going to buy a car at the end of the year. Next year I’m going to get married. The next year I’m going to have a child. I hope I can live in good health.
A person’s life is just a few decades. I used to think that I would make a lot of money and get ahead. Now I don’t think so.
How to live is not live? The most important thing is to be happy. You can’t force what is promising and what makes a lot of money.
Especially after marriage, this idea is more obvious.
So, live well, starve to death, and fight for a small home with both hands.
I am 32 years old. I started my business with my friends.
I am a girl, at this age, the most suitable should be to take a baby. Unfortunately, I haven’t had a baby yet
Before investing money to start a business, it was also in a start-up company. Before entering the company, it was agreed to play the role of partner and give a certain amount of shares. But in fact, it hasn’t been fulfilled for a year, and the contract has not been signed. Then, he left decisively.
It’s very hard to start a business. I gave up my job as a unicorn company to be listed. I worked day and night. My performance increased by 40% every month. However, the boss is really unreliable. It’s a hard road, and the boss of the dike has to stab him in the back all the time. It’s too boring.
After leaving, everyone said that I should have a good rest, find a relaxed job and prepare for pregnancy and childbirth. A girl in her 30s is really not suitable for starting a business.
Even my former colleagues took me to the publishing house of the University. It was a very easy job.
Finally, I still couldn’t control myself and invested in my own business. Continue to be a beloved medical project.
Although I met many difficulties and lost a lot of money, I still insisted.
Perhaps, in the end, I failed and accomplished nothing, but only by doing this, can I feel alive and I am who I am.
I came from the countryside in 1988. So far, everything has been going well for me. When I was in school, I worked hard. However, I was stupid. I passed the second school. When I came from the countryside, I was not confident, cowardly, homespun, and never fell in love.
After graduating from university in 2011, I began to work. The nature of the work is inconvenient to be revealed. It is very stressful, and the mental and physical pressure is unbearable. Now the monthly salary is tenthousand yuan, which seems good, but if the salary is calculated on time, it is very little.
He got married in October of 2017. His wife worked in a second tier city. The house price was ridiculously high. When he got married, he married a car. But he had three years of car loans and thousands of dollars a month. He always wanted to have his own house. But now he depends on his salary. This is just a dream.
Now after work, I want to take some useful certificates and other ways to make money. In short, I feel like I have failed. I want to leave my current job, but I can only live on and feel tired!
I’m 86 years old and I’m a Taobao worker. Because I’m getting married in 2009, my parents paid 70000 yuan down for a house in Yanjiao in 2008. I paid 1400 yuan a month and 30000 yuan for decoration.
At that time, my wife and I worked in Beijing. The total monthly income was less than 6000 yuan. In 11 years, my wife had children and rested for 2 years. My salary was only 4500 yuan.
In 2012, I went back to my hometown in Shijiazhuang to start a business. At that time, my monthly income was 2500 yuan. My wife continued to take care of the children. Because there was no house in Shijiazhuang, Shijiazhuang rented 1400 yuan a month. Considering that I also want to buy a house in the future, I borrowed 240000 yuan in 13 years and bought a house in Shijiazhuang with half of the down payment.
In 14 years, I earned 480000 net profit, repaid 240000 yuan, and the remaining 240000 yuan. I bought a second-hand car, 80000 yuan.
From 2014 to 2016, I gave myself a salary increase of 4000 yuan per month. A small investment earned 1500 yuan per month. The rent in Yanjiao earned 2500 yuan per month. From 2012 to 2016, my wife earned 2500 yuan per month.
The rent is 1400 yuan a month, the mortgage is 1400 yuan a month, the children go to kindergarten for less than 1000 yuan a month, the family’s daily expenses are 1500 yuan a month, the parents buy and decorate their house for 70000 yuan, and now they still have 180000 yuan in hand.
At that time, the purchase price of Yanjiao house was 3600 yuan per square meter, and now the house price is 29000 yuan per square meter. When Shijiazhuang house was purchased, it was 4790 yuan per square meter, and now it is 12000 yuan per square meter.
But now the business is not easy to do, and the pressure is great.
I majored in logistics for 91 years and worked in financial logistics for one and a half years. I am a little skeptical about what I have learned.
When I came back to get married, I met a logistics transfer in the county town. The price was very low. I wanted to contract. I didn’t have money for my mobile phone. My family didn’t agree. I was idle at home for a year.
Later, he opened a small shop to sell special products. During this period, he made some financial investments and lost about 100000 yuan.
Now he knows everything and is not proficient in anything. He is the father of two children.
Who hasn’t been confused and who hasn’t been at a loss? My wife gives me the greatest support. Now I’m working and my salary is OK. I’m ready to pay back, save some money and go back to my hometown.
Working all the time, you will achieve nothing. I know everything. Why should I achieve nothing? In your thirties, you still haven’t achieved anything. Do you want to admit it? You look great, so you can’t do anything